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Friday, May 13, 2011

Flashback Friday 12

Today's flashback takes us to November of 2007. My good friend Kirsten got a group of friends together to go to a Ben Lee concert in Salt Lake. I had never heard of Ben Lee before... but if my friends were going and they liked him, I knew I would like him too... plus hanging out with this group of friends was a good time in general.

Turns out... Ben Lee is awesome. He was funny and he reminds me of a Hobbit. He is from Australia, so it was fun just to hear him talk. Needless to say we all had a good time and I went home that night and downloaded a bunch of his music. I actually love being introduced to new music. Thanks guys for introducing me to Ben Lee. I LOVE concerts.

Here we are with Ben Lee & with his key board guy that we thought was pretty cute.





The Girls (Abby, Kirsten & Me)


Me with the guys (Clayton & Randy)



The whole group that went.


Thursday, May 12, 2011

Confessions of a Brunette on the Internet 65

I don't know why Blogger was down.... but while it was down it deleted my post from yesterday and then re posted it and my comments are gone. Whats up with that? At least it came back.

On Saturday I played the "Connect" game system for the first time and of course danced my heart out. Its pretty awesome. You don't have to hold a controller and the dance moves get more intense. It could actually teach you how to be an awesome dancer if you let it. I am being more and more sold on these games. I think I need to sell what I have now and upgrade.

Saturday I also went to WalMart with a friend that used to be in my ward. I hardly see her anymore and we were at the same party and both of us needed to go to WalMart so we shopped while we caught up. We were talking about how we are tired of the dating game and I saw some guy all dressed up spot us in WalMart. He didn't say anything but I could tell he checked us out. As we were leaving the store and heading into the parking lot he comes out of nowhere and asks us if we got something for our mothers for Mothers day the next day. Smart way to start conversation I guess. We end up talking to this guy for like 15 minutes or so and he left with my friend's number.... as we were walking back to our car we noticed that he was not even next to his car when he stopped us to talk... so we know that he totally plotted and planned it. Too bad neither one of us were interested, but I was really happy and proud of him for making the effort that he did. More guys should do that. Maybe if more guys did that sort of thing... there would not be so many older single girls such as myself. Just sayin.

All of my cousins on my dad's side of the family came over to my parents house for Sunday dinner. I had not seen all of them in years. It was so great to see them. Just started me thinking though... I am the ONLY one on that side of the family that is not married. One of the very few on my mom's side that is not married as well. I felt like after all of these years people didn't know what to say to me. What to talk to me about. I feel like an outcast in these situations. I really try hard not to, but I do.

This week out of nowhere my computer got a virus and everything shut down. I couldn't get any work done... they put me in another office on a different computer... but everything was so different that it took me twice as long to get anything done. It was so annoying. Along with that I wasn't feeling that great this week either... I have slept a lot. All in all this week didn't completely suck... but it wasn't that great either.

I know that usually I confess about random stuff. I like to be light hearted and funny and stay positive about life when it comes to my blog...but here is a true confession. I know that to most people my life seems really great, and it is, but I am lonely. I get sad. I'm tired of fighting the same battles. Out of everyone that was at my parents house on Sunday where everyone could only think to talk to me about my job and what I do there I had one cousin that was talking to me one on one and told me that he remembered how hard it was for him to be the last one to get married and that he didn't know if it was hard for me... but it was for him. I almost started to cry. Sometimes... all I want is to be understood. For people to know that some days its harder for me to deal with than others and when I'm having a hard time, I need to talk about it. Sometimes my heart aches because I feel like I am never going to get married and I long for that companionship and desire so badly to have children of my own even though I really love my nieces and nephews. Sometimes, even though my life is great and I feel like I make the best out of what life brings me, I want people to recognize that it is hard to be single. That it would be nice to feel loved  by a guy and to have that consistency in my life. Have I been depressed this week? No. Frustrated? Yes. Discouraged? Very much so. Sometimes I feel like somewhere in my life I made a wrong turn and that things would be different for me if I had done something different. I don't know if that is true. I am not really sure what to do about it all except for keep trucking along and hope for the best. Maybe I need to go on the Mormon Bachelorette to find true love. I don't know... but I'm ready.

Sorry, don't mean to be a downer. Just how I have been feeling this week... and it wouldn't be a true confession if I didn't share that. In other words, its out of my system now, so you won't hear about it again.


Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Photo of the Week 63

Blue Springs in Florida. I just couldn't get enough of all that hanging moss.


Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Green Smoothie

I have noticed that this is kind of the trend right now for a healthy breakfast. My friend Rachel is the one that gave me this recipe and got me to try it out... however, the more I have talked to people about it, the more I hear about people drinking the same stuff. I love it. I think its a healthy, filling and delicious way to start out your day. I make it the night before so I can get up and put a straw in it and grab it on my way out the door. I just take sips all morning until its gone. (I like having it last longer... but that's just me)

I have had a few people ask me what I put in the green smoothie, so I thought I would post it here on the blog.

Green Smoothie

2 handfuls spinach
1 handful of frozen berries (no sugar added)
1 small container of honey Greek Yogurt (but you could use any flavor you like)
1/3 of a banana
1-2 Tablespoons of Flax seed
*Sometimes I add a handful of Kale*

Blend it up. Drink it up.



Monday, May 9, 2011

Pregnancy Photoshoot

Speaking of Mothers Day.... here is one of my closest friends who is a mother to be. I convinced Monica to let me do a pregnancy photoshoot of her. Here are my favorites from the shoot. I hope she likes them.

*I had to throw the picture of her eating the flowers. That is so Mo... always being silly. I love it. That is one of the many things that I love about being around her. She always makes me laugh*





Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mothers Day

Happy Mothers Day to my mother, my grandmother, my sisters who are amazing mothers and all of my friends that are mothers and future mothers.

Saturday night I was driving with my friend Anne-Marie and drove by this house and saw this lighted sign. I thought it was so sweet.


At church on Sunday all the women were given flowers. It was very thoughtful and the flowers were beautiful.



The rest of the day I spent with my parents and oldest sister my dad's sister and ALL of her kids and grandkids. I had not seen my cousin in years!! So good to see them all.

Here is a poem to honor all of the wonderful mothers that I know.


Saturday, May 7, 2011

Florida

I know I have already posted a little about Florida (Harry Potter World & Epcot & a little about the Gators) but I wanted to post a summary of the trip. Which means you are in for a long post. :o) Ready? Okay.

First of all, this was my first time to Florida. My Uncle and Aunt live there in Titusville and have told me many times that I am welcome to come visit whenever I want. For a long time I was trying to find a friend that would go with me. I asked one of my very good friends, Kirsten. I honestly thought it was a long shot because she is married... and usually married people just can't take off and go on vacation with their single friends. How could I forget that her husband, Dallas, was awesome and would let her go. So we bought our tickets like a month and a half previous to our departure and started planning. I am actually glad that I waited until now to go to Florida because Harry Potter World has been open for less than a year. If I had gone previous years... I would have missed Harry Potter World and that would have been a big shame since that was one of the highlights of the trip for me.

Day 1. We flew in Thursday evening and then spent the night chatting with my Uncle and Aunt, getting a tour of the house, watching the awesome fire flies in their backyard (I wish we had those Utah, they are so magical) and Kirsten and I spent the rest of the night in our room catching up on life since we had not seen each other in 6 months we were pretty excited. When we went to our guest room, we each had a little welcome package from my Aunt and Uncle with chocolate and beautiful cards and stationary and a candle. Are they not the cutest? Sweetest thing ever. We certainly felt welcomed and at home.


Day 2 (Friday) was spent in Orlando at Universal Studios.  Since Harry Potter World is still very new, they have to regulate the crowd, so you are given a time when you can go in. As soon as you are in you can stay as long as you want, but as soon as you leave you can't go back. While we waited we explored Seuss Landing and Jurassic Park. Both very fun. We were both not used to the heat and humidity so we even found a little place in Camp Jurassic (for the kids) where it was shaded and by the water and not crowded and we just hung out and talked for like an hour. We both thought it was so great. That is how you know we are getting old. ha ha. But then we got into Harry Potter World and spent a Quality 8 hours there. After seeing everything we wanted to see, we went to the downtown part of Universal (kind of like downtown Disney) and we ate outside at this Italian restaurant and had the most amazing pizza while we listened to this rockin live band. We were loving life. It was awesome.





Day 3 (Saturday) we are already so tired. I slept in. After my Uncle and Aunt got back from their choir practice they were wonderful tour guides and took us about an hour away to "Blue Springs" which is a Manatee Reservoir. Sadly the Manatee's are only there in the winter... so we didn't see any. It was so beautiful there though. Kirsten and I couldn't get over all the hanging moss on the trees. It was so beautiful. With the hanging moss and the fire flies... we definitely felt like we were in the south! It was my first time to the south so I was loving it. It made me want to eat some Jambalaya though. We walked up the path at Blue Springs. This is where we spotted our first Florida Alligator (which was VERY exciting). After walking the path we rented a couple of tubes and Kirsten and my Aunt Janet went down the spring in the tubes and me and my Uncle Gary snorkeled down... which I LOVED.



 I got to see this crater at the top of the springs and then was swimming with these BIG long fish down the spring. So fun. Also very refreshing from the heat. Oh and my Aunt and Uncle brought along an underwater camera so that I could continue to take pictures while I was snorkeling.


After spending the afternoon at Blue Springs, we met up with a couple of my Uncle and Aunt's very good friends from church, Tom & Olga. Not only did we get a great meal at Cracker Barrel, but we also got entertainment. Tom & Olga are both VERY funny. They had us laughing throughout our entire meal. Tom is referred to as Tom the Gatorman. Why? Because he catches Gators for fun. Not just Gators but all kinds of critters. To see how animated and excited he gets about it... he reminded me a lot of Steve Irwin (The Crocodile Hunter) except Tom has a southern accent instead of an Australian accent. Great story teller. We could have listened to them all night. I think my favorite thing that Tom would say is that he calls his wife his Tweedy Bird. I thought that was so cute. Hearing him talk about rocks was pretty funny too. He loves rocks.



Day 4 (Easter Sunday) We got up and went to church with my Uncle and Aunt. They are in the choir at New Life Christian Fellowship church. It was so fun to watch them in the choir. The music was awesome. The Choir is backed up by a small orchestra and they have a screen up with pictures and the words displayed so that the audience can sing along too. It was a neat experience to go to a different church. We went back to the house and had lunch with my Uncle, Aunt and Olga (who was also in the choir) and then Kirsten and I were off to the Space Center. My Uncle actually works for NASA (I know, cool right?) so he hooked us up with some tickets. He was so awesome to do that for us. We had a great time at the Space Center. It was really educational for me. I can't tell you how much I knew about NASA and our mission's we have taken to space. We got to hear a lecture from a real astronaut that went up into space and we watched this awesome and beautiful 3D film. Our favorite thing we did while we were there though was the rocket simulator. They actually created a ride that makes you feel like you are launching into space in a rocket. You go into a little room and buckle into these seats, they lean the room all the way back and then the room vibrates... its pretty cool. Tom the Gatorman drives the Space Center tour bus... I had gotten his number the night before so we could try and get on his bus. We didn't end up making it on his bus, but he did come and meet us at the gift shop and told us all the things we needed to do while we were there. He was very helpful. Tom & Olga are such great people. I can't see why My Uncle and Aunt are such good friends with them. We then came home and had Easter Dinner with Uncle Gary and Aunt Janet and spent the evening relaxing.






Day 5 (Monday) we drove back to Orlando to go to Disney World. Epcot to be exact. Another reason I am glad we went when we did because we got to experience Epcot during the Flower and Garden Festival which was only amazing. I have wanted to go to Epcot for many years, so it was fun to finally go.


Day 6 (Tuesday) we said and sad goodbye to My Uncle and Aunt and drove back to Orlando. Not straight to the airport.... we wanted to experience Gatorland first. We were so glad we did too. That place is fun and beautiful. Another awesome reason to visit in April... there are thousands of birds that go there to nest and lay their eggs. Why? Because with a lot of Alligators, what critters are going to mess with their eggs in the trees? Its genius really. So we got to see a lot of Gators AND a lot of beautiful birds AND their nests AND some of the little hatching's. It was pretty awesome. Even without the birds... there is lots of entertainment. We first went to the Gator wrestling show where we got our picture on top of a Gator. This is when we first talked to a couple of the guys that run the place and pretty much do all of the shows. One of the guys asked me where I was from and I said California. Every time he saw me around the park after that he would remember me and call me Cali. I thought it was awesome. He ended up running the train ride too.  There was also a Gator jumping race... you would see the Gators jump out of the water for food. They also had a live animal show... they would take critters our of boxes and have people in the audience hold them. They had a petting Zoo (which we didn't go to) and I saw my first White Alligator. There are lots of things to do at Gatorland. We spent about 4 hours there and then drove to the airport where we sadly parted ways to go to our different airlines.







I am so glad that Kirsten experienced this trip with me. Not only is she a good friend but she is a great travel buddy that is so polite and an easy person to talk to and get along with. It was so great to be able to spend a whole week with her after not seeing her for 6 months. Love her to pieces.


I am also very thankful to my Uncle Gary and Aunt Janet. They were so sweet not only to invite me out to come visit, but then to make us feel so welcome and at home and picking us up from the airport and getting us tickets to the Space Center, feeding us and being great tour guides and taking us to Blue Springs. I could go on and on. They are great. I love them and am happy to call them family. Thanks to all for a really amazing trip. :o)