Pretty much ever since I started dating, the guys I date get married to the girl they start dating AFTER me. I wish I were joking. It has happened so many times that I have lost track....
So does that say something about me? Am I good at preparing guys for marriage, but just not with me? Do they finally realize what they want because of dating me? Do they realize they are just not good enough for me so feel like they should just settle (that one was a joke). I don't know.... but I would love to figure it out.
It just happened again.... so it has been on my mind. How do I break the pattern? Do I need to date someone who has the same problem as me? So we will cancel each other out and marry each other? Or date a guy who dated a girl before me with the same problem?
Maybe it is all by chance and I just have really bad luck.... for the whole time I have been dating.....
Here's to hoping my bad luck streak will end someday. Until then, my neighbor Geoff and I have committed to not commit (to get married) and stay neighbors for life. :)
So does that say something about me? Am I good at preparing guys for marriage, but just not with me? Do they finally realize what they want because of dating me? Do they realize they are just not good enough for me so feel like they should just settle (that one was a joke). I don't know.... but I would love to figure it out.
It just happened again.... so it has been on my mind. How do I break the pattern? Do I need to date someone who has the same problem as me? So we will cancel each other out and marry each other? Or date a guy who dated a girl before me with the same problem?
Maybe it is all by chance and I just have really bad luck.... for the whole time I have been dating.....
Here's to hoping my bad luck streak will end someday. Until then, my neighbor Geoff and I have committed to not commit (to get married) and stay neighbors for life. :)
2 comments:
It'll be ok, Tracy.
It's happened to a lot of us ;)
You're successful, confidant and many people are intimidated by that. You will find a nice man that appreciates you for who you are coz you're a gem.
It's not you, it's them.
That is a pretty awesome superpower. Maybe you should write M. Night Shamalanadingdong and have him write a movie about you.
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